Vision Your Marriage

Vision Your Marriage in Marriage Conversation

We do not often connect the need for vision in our most important relationships with the actions that visioning will produce. Smart business leaders dedicate time and energy to imagining just what they would like to see happen in their business over the next 12 months, 3 years and 5 years.

What would it look like if you were to take this challenge and look at your relationship from this point of view? Here are a few things to think about:

• Start with communication – if I could have what I inwardly desire, ask yourself ‘how would we talk about the recurring challenges we face?’
• Conflict – ‘I would like our conflicts to go from circular and repetitive arguments to ___________.’
• Money – ‘Do we have the courage to talk openly and non judgmentally about money? What would our finances look like at this time next year if we were to be proactively solution oriented and created a common purpose?
• Intimacy – Take a close look at how loving you are. Make some decisions to slowly let go of judgments and analysis of your partner and imagine yourself as the originator of loving in your relationship. Look down the road. How would you ‘show up’ if you accepted full responsibility for the quality of intimacy you desire?

Take notes. Put your vision in words and share it with your partner. Watch what happens.

“The moment I decide to take complete responsibility for my life, everything and everyone around me changes.” SF

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